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Writing about classmates who have returned to their Eternal Home was a daunting job. The fact that their names were noted in the directory that Marina published did not make it easier. It was looking into their pictures (some I really did not know or could recall) and noting memories of the class years at UST that brought a lump in my throat. These were people whom we all knew, studied with and had fun with. I guess those happy memories are the ones that we should keep in our hearts and minds to keep them alive. Let us remember them in our prayers and pray that God envelope them all in His Loving Arms. Some of you may be close friends to these deceased classmates of ours. Feel free to add on your happy memories that you shared with them. I went by with what I could remember of them. I am sure that their lives have touched ours and had left lasting imprints in our hearts. Let us keep their memories alive as they were once vibrant members of the Magnificent Class of 67. PLEASE CLICK HERE TO SEE "CONVERSATIONS WITH THE DEAD" BY MARINA G. FELICIANO. EMERLINDA ABAY-MERCADER Charito and myself had real strong ties. She was my maid of honor and was the one who helped me plan most of the details of my wedding. She shared her personal feelings and love life with me. My visits to the Philippines to see my Dad with his chronic ailment were begun my calling Charito as soon as my plane landed. She would see me the next day and stayed at my Dad's place as I could not leave. She was at my Dad's funeral when I could not go home. Chato spent many days with me at Glen Mills. I could not let her travel alone to New York and often, I would take off from work to drive her to see Velia, her friend in the Big City. I looked forward to her visits in the States. Chato ,you had been a part of my life and I will never forget our friendship. I miss you a lot but I know that you are now at peace. (Pressyh@comcast.net) CECILIA CASTELO-LIM Cecile was a very smart girl. Diligent and loyal to her promise to her father and family, she pursued her studies with great results. She never had problems with her grades. I was with Cecile Castelo-Lim at the Salem Hospital (now Northshore Medical Center, ) in Salem,Mass. Isa's description of her as a 'rough diamond' fits her to a T. I barely knew her before I went to Salem, I knew we were in the same class at UST but that was that. My brother worked with Cecile's husband,Ben, a very good man and a brilliant engineer, at a chemical company in Bulacan and told me about Salem Hospital so I ended up there.The first few months of my acquintance with her was quite a shock. As Zinnia said, she was 'tomboyish,' and more...she was very rough at the edges, her complete naivete about social graces can be embarrasing and yes, shocking, but as one gets to know her, one will discover that she in her own rough way had a good heart. There was no mean bone in her. She had absolutely no insight that certain things were not altogether “proper.” When anyone points out these things to her, like a child, she would ask, "Was that really wrong?' and she would laugh and say, " I did not know that was wrong," and she truely and honestly meant it, too. And she was thankful for people pointing this out to her. Ben, her loving husband was very patient with her but sometimes we were not. I know she would be laughing out loud as Zinnia said if she hears what we are saying now. Rest in peace,Cecile, you are truely a very good person underneath that rough exterior, a "rough diamond." (purifger@yahoo.com) RAMON ARELLANO CUKINGNAN, JR. (“Cookie”) "Cookie" passed away peacefully at the age of 63 after a long illness on Wednesday, September 26, 2007 surrounded by his family. He was survived by his wife of 37 years, Bernadette and his children Jennifer, Marietta, Amanda, Michael and Tara, his grandchildren, Gianna and Gage as well as his sons-in-law, Garry and Damon. Born in San Jose, Philippines, Ramon was the son of Ramon and Inez Cukingnan. He was the oldest son among several brothers and sisters, most of whom continue to reside in the Philippines. He studied medicine at the University of Santo Tomas (Class of 1967) before moving to the United States to complete his residency. ADOLFO EBARVIA RAMONCITO “CHITO” EDROSA Chito passed away peacefully surrounded by his loved ones and after receiving the last rites of the church on December 29, 2007 at 2317. He is survived by his wife, Evelyn, their children, Ron, Richelle and Randall, two grandchildren and his in-laws. For more particulars, please visit Chito's memorial page. About a year or so before his passing, Jimmy received an invitation from his estranged father from China, to visit him. Jimmy and his siblings were raised by their mother while their father was absent. He was hesitant about making the trip, and we talked. Eventually, he wisely decided to go. His hometown, Fuzhou happens to be the birthplace of the most beautiful soapstones in the world. And I am a soapstone collector. With some encouragement, he agreed to find some for me on his emotional trip. I gave him a quick tutorial with photos and long conversations on the phone. He was a fast learner. He and his father had a wonderful reconciliation. (memories of Jimmy by Peter Fang) Jimmy was the quintessential “free spirit”. Fun and laughter followed him. But beneath the carefree exterior was a somber person with deep sense of family. He was always handy around the house. During one of his New York visits, I awoke to hustle and bustle. He decided to re-landscape my garden, pruning the pine shrubs like oversized bonsai trees. He found slabs of slate and built a long bench, where I could sit and smell the roses. I still have the bench, and continue to prune the shrubs as he did. (memories of Jimmy by Erwin Gonzalez) Beautiful, inside and out. Intelligent, simple, humble and unassuming. A devout and very religious Catholic. A very loving and devoted daughter, sister, wife and mother. A true and trustworthy friend and a dedicated physician . She loved yellow roses, fine things, and her favorite song, “Somewhere My Love”, from “Dr. Zhivago”. Josie was a home body who shunned parties and glitters. She was content to stay in her dorm when not in school, the church, or the hospital, reading and studying. Her favorite hobby was reading the Bible. You see, for the longest time when we were together all throughout Pre-Med. and med school, Josie wanted to be a nun. Had it not been for the persistent pursuit of our classmate Ben (or Boy as we called him then), Josie would have entered the convent. She was forever talking about religion, prayers and sacrifices! We used to go on weekends, when we did not have much studying to do, to the Catholic Trade School, our favorite hang-out, buying prayer books, “estampitas”, etc. or just browsing and passing time. I remember on one of these walks to the Catholic Trade School, Ben followed us. He was quite a distance away but somehow,Josie spotted him. Giggling, Josie said to me, "Don't look back, someone is following us." Of course, I looked back otherwise how would I know who was following us. Then she said, "I have a big problem with the name. How would my name sound with 'Alibadbad' at the end?" Sorry, Boy. And we laughed all along the way. Ben to this day, probably has no idea what we were laughing about. “Hele, hele, bago quiere.” They were married in Connecticut years later and Josie honored me as one of her bridesmaids. Her oldest sister, Belen, was maid-of-honor. Belen, a teacher in Quezon, sent Josie through Medical School as their father died the summer before we entered our freshman year in Medical School. Josie died in a car accident in Florida in the late 70's leaving her only son Andy, and her husband, Ben. She was my best friend, and the big sister I never had! I will never forget how she chose to give up being a “live-in intern” at the UST Hospital ,and be a rotating “living-out intern” because this poor friend of hers could not afford to “live-in”. That was the time when interns could choose to live in the hospital for the first time in UST Medical School history. And “living-in” became sort of a status symbol, and “living-out” was, well, marginalized. She was a true friend. I miss her terribly. Josie, we will see each other again someday, but not that soon, yet. And Josie, one big favor, when you see any member of Class '67 approaching the pearly gates, say a good word to Saint Peter to let them all in. As for this writer, if Saint Peter balks at the idea, wait until he falls asleep, steal his keys, and let me in! Don't worry, you are already in, St. Peter will not kick you out. I will be content to stay even in the basement there as long as I get in. I am sure you are in one of the penthouses there closest to GOD! Good night my friend. (by Purificacion Geronimo-Flores) He was born in Loay, Bohol, also the hometown of my father. He talked to me when we met in the lobby and hallways since he knew I also hailed from the Visayas.He had fair complexion, was good looking, polite and easy to talk to.We elected him president of the Visayas Medical Association in medical school. He tried so much to please everybody in our group. He was also very considerate, always checking if anybody disagreed or was annoyed with him on matters pertaining to our association. One interesting tidbit of information: Robie was one of several that carried a torch for Mayette Andrada. (by Zinnia B. Giron) ALEX MANASAN Another sad day for all of us. Our circle is broken one more time, with one less to help make it whole again. God took back a very beautiful soul, a very talented mind. She opened up to us with her beautiful poems in Tagalog and in English, the few she shared with us. Death sounds very final. We will grieve with the rest; then we will rejoice for a classmate, a friend, had successfully made her final journey to the kingdom of the Lord. Let us bid Mercedita Martinez-Trompeta our final goodbye. (Obituary by Zinnia B. Giron) CARMEN NIEVA This day, I finally got myself to write my tribute to one of my dearest and best friends, Carmen Nieva, fondly known as "Menchu". I could not do it before, because a deep sadness always overcomes me. However, I want people to know how beautiful a person she was. I did cry when I was writing this poem, for I miss her a lot. This poem, of course does not say it all but you will have a glimpse of her loving character. "A GENTLE SOUL, MENCHU" I treasured our friendship, so deep in my heart She often carried a smile on her face I poured out my feelings to her everytime She gladly played cupid to every lonely couple Many lessons I learned from this faithful soul My heart grieved endlessly when she passed away My friend, no goodbyes were said when you left suddenly Dear Menchu, you are a gift and an inspiration to me. Almighty Father, loving Creator and Redeemer We thank You Lord for the gift of life and the gift of friends, the gift of Menchu and all our classmates whom You have called home to be with You for all eternity. All honor and glory to You, O God! Amen! (Alice Pecson-Cuento) STELLA PEÑAFIEL We became good friends in medical school. I was drawn by her cheerful nature and the smile she always had on. And she also was about my size! She commuted from home from first year medical school through internship and was always in a hurry and breathless when she arrived. Like Tessie Balza, I identified her by the umbrella she carried and by the short , straight and unruly hair that she kept brushing off her face. I was surprised when she told me she had a boyfriend early on. She married somebody else when she came to the United States. I visited her once when she did her rotating internship in New Jersey in 1967. That was the last time I saw her.I was devastated when I heard she was dying of cancer several years later. She was a great loss not only to her family but also to her friends. (by Zinnia B. Giron) ERLINDA RAMISCAL ROSITA TAN-FONTE Rosita Tan-Fonte passed away on 3-03-09 from lung cancer complicated by a rapidly progressive pneumonia. Rosita, who originally hailed from Iligan City, in Lanao del Norte, settled in Odiongan, Romblon before migrating to Wellington, New Zealand. She was married to Ernesto Fonte with whom she had 2 daughters, one son and 5 grandchildren. To view the eulogies for Rosita, CLICK HERE. (by Teresita Fonte Silverio) |
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